In a recent podcast episode, Simma Lieberman “The Inclusionist”, and Rosalyn Taylor O’Neale engage in a provocative conversation about the significance of discussing race and the impact it can have on fostering understanding and dismantling stereotypes.  https://raceconvo.com/everyday-conversation-on-race-with-rosalyn-taylor-oneale-dei-og-for-47-years/

Rosalyn, a highly regarded diversity and inclusion thought leader, shares her experiences and insights, shedding light on the need for open dialogue across racial lines. This blog post aims to highlight the key takeaways from their conversation and emphasize the importance of engaging in conversations on race.

If you want to know why it’s still important to our well-being in the US and across the globe, read on.

1.The Need for Dialogue: 

Rosalyn emphasizes that conversations on race are essential because they provide an opportunity to address discomfort, challenge assumptions, and build trust. By engaging in these conversations, we can bridge the gap between different racial groups and foster a deeper understanding of one another’s experiences. Too often, people are afraid to have the conversation and simply ignore people who are different than them, or act like everyone thinks the same.

2. Addressing Stereotypes: 

The conversation highlights the prevalence of stereotypes and the importance of challenging them. Rosalyn shares personal anecdotes, such as her experience of being the only black child in her school, to illustrate how stereotypes can shape perceptions and hinder genuine connections. By engaging in conversations on race, we can debunk stereotypes and foster empathy and understanding. Rosalyn shares her pioneering work at Campbell Soup and MTV in diversity, equity, and inclusion. The only way to break stereotypes and assumptions is to hear each other’s stories, and have real personal conversations.

It is easier and lazier to make up stories and exclude and dehumanize people you don’t know.

3. The Power of Curiosity: 

Both Simma and Rosalyn stress the significance of being curious and open-minded when discussing race. Instead of making assumptions or relying on preconceived notions, it is crucial to approach conversations with a genuine desire to learn and understand. This curiosity allows for the exploration of different perspectives and experiences, leading to greater empathy and connection. We need to help each other ask the right questions and not be afraid of the answers.

4. Recognizing Intersectionality: 

Rosalyn highlights the importance of acknowledging intersectionality within conversations on race. She shares her experiences as a Black woman and a lesbian, emphasizing that individuals have multiple identities that shape their experiences. By recognizing and understanding these intersections, we can foster more inclusive conversations and challenge the notion of a monolithic experience within racial groups. No one is just one identity and we can find similarities in our multiple identities, and become curious and excited about our differences. Our intersectionality helps us find connections.

5. Challenging Historical Narratives: 

The conversation also discusses the need to challenge historical narratives that perpetuate harmful stereotypes and biases. Rosalyn highlights the importance of questioning assumptions and seeking accurate information to counteract the perpetuation of harmful narratives. By engaging in conversations on race, we can collectively work towards a more precise and inclusive understanding of history. Don’t just read a history book, listen to a news story, or watch a film with only one perspective, notably if it doesn’t include stories by and about the people most affected.  

Example: A schoolboard has changed a curriculum in their area to say that slaves learned skills they could use for their personal benefit. If that is happening in your area, don’t let your children believe that is the true history.

Talk to people from different groups who can share their history.

Conclusion: 

The podcast episode featuring Simma Lieberman, The Inclusionist, and Rosalyn Taylor O’Neale not only provides us with the benefits of conversations on race across races but is a true example of a cross-race conversation.

By engaging in open dialogue, challenging assumptions, and fostering curiosity, we can break down barriers, debunk stereotypes, and build bridges of understanding. It’s up to all of us to decide and envision the kind of society and world in which we want to live.  

I personally want a more inclusive and equitable society, where individuals from all racial backgrounds can thrive and be seen for their unique experiences and perspectives. 

Let us embrace the power of conversation and work towards a more united future. 

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Thank you for reading.